In "When it Changed" by Joanna Russ, the society
on the planet Whileaway is completely made up of women. When men come back to
the planet, inviting the women to come back to the newly "gender
equal" earth, the women are offended and refuse. They grew up in a place
where men had not been present for thirty generations, therefore they are
completely sufficient without men, and partake in activities that are
traditionally divided between men and women by gender roles. With regard to
certain physical capabilities, women and men can do the same ordinary tasks
equally. The men were baffled and disagreed with their lifestyles, simply
because it was not the way they were conditioned to believe women should behave
in life. The men wanted to be "manly" but so did the women, however,
the women thought that the very concept of a "manly role" existing
was wrong. I just think it is crazy that gender roles are so prevalent and
normal in societies all over the world, to the point where we do not even
notice them. It is only when I read stories like this, or a feminist article,
that I realize how influenced I am by my environment. I do not tend to have any
strong views on feminism or the like, but I do think individuals should be able
to do whatever they want and act however they want without being discriminated
against or pointed out. Unfortunately gender roles are so pressed on society
and ingrained in who we are, when someone is acting out of their role it is
hard to not see them as weird and/or more masculine or feminine. Not only that,
but we have a tendency to think something just is not “right” with that
individual. It is all very bizarre to me and makes me think about how we are
all brainwashed to a certain point from birth (haha).
On a side note, really liked the way Simone de Beauvoir
spoke on the subject as “the Other” in The
Second Sex. It was a new point of view to me and I actually agree with a
lot of it. I think most women do view themselves as “the other” without even
realizing it, when in reality we are all created equal. These past few stories
have been VERY interesting and mind-bending for me.
"I do not tend to have any strong views on feminism or the like, but I do think individuals should be able to do whatever they want and act however they want without being discriminated against or pointed out. " Did you know that this is a very strong feminist view and basically the definition of feminism? The negative stereotype of feminism isn't a very accurate statement of what feminism is. Hate to break it to you, but you're a feminist. :)
ReplyDeleteGlad SdeB is working out for you; she's not only really smart but one of the more optimistic/happy existentialists (unlike her long term partner, Sartre, who's a total downer!). If you like 2nd Sex, you might really like "The Ethics of Ambiguity," which has been a personal touchstone text for me.
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